The other night I was at a youth summit event with Project
Kenya. There were number of speakers and we were introduced on stage to show our community the team that will be going to
Kenya next year.
All of the speakers were great. They all talked about following your dreams and learning from your failures. And they all told us about their stories and how maybe some people didn't believe in them. But they kept going.
A guy named Dan, who goes to my church sometimes, was speaking. I knew his situation but I never heard him share his story. Let's just throw it out there...I was inspired.
Dan was wrestling with a friend one night, just horsing around like guys do, and some how he flipped over his friend and landed on his back breaking his neck. He was paralyzed from the neck down, however the doctor fixed his neck, but he still can't walk, and is in a driving wheelchair. His life was all about sports. That's all he did, and explained that he probably going to go to college to play more sports. He explained that he was never the best one on the team, but he was always the hardest working. His team could always count on him to never give up. Period.
But now he is stuck, and may never walk again. But he doesn't call his story a sad story. He has stayed positive through it all. He told us this is because of his supportive family, his awesome friends who while he was in the hospital raised 30,000 for him, and people who inspire him.
He told us a story that one Saturday he was having a bad day because he was stuck in the hospital with nothing to do, and his friends, who were going to come visit, cancelled on him. He went cruising around to try to entertain himself and met a guy outside that inspired him and changed his perspective completely. The guy he met had no parents or siblings because they died, and he has 4 kids who have never visited him since he was omitted to the hospital - 7 years ago. He changed his perspective on the situation he thought he was in and became positive.
He encouraged us youngsters to keep pushing forward. He said that bad stuff happens but there is someone out there who is in a way bigger situation then you are in so stay positive.
His favorite saying: “If you can't fly then run, if you can't run then walk, if you can't walk then crawl, but whatever you do you have to keep moving forward.” - Martin Luther King Jr.
~amy